What do young ladies want from life?
On the edge of 30 I ask myself what I want from life. 10 years ago I had daring dreams and wanted to be happy, to have enough money, to have many friends, to travel abroad, visit different places and meet various cultures.
Now I realize that dreams come true if you work hard every day and value in every day-life people’s attitude. Happiness is not a condition, it’s an aspiration. Money is never enough and there is no amount that can makes you happy because you want more and more… The question is: to have many friends or to have valuable contacts? A friendship is measured by its depth and exhaustion, not by its frequency. To travel a person needs time and money.
If we set aside the philosophy of our desires, let’s list the simple things we ladies want from life:
I want a staggering look!
So the question is what to do?!? And we do: diets, we use cosmetics, lipsticks, eye shadows, anti cellulite body gel with caffeine and extracts from cola, ivy and wild chestnut?!?!?! Smear our skin with body lotion to get more moisturizer tan … we support and develop an industry which offers us false and photo-shopped faces and bodies from all the magazines. Is this the real life?
I want a successful career!
So the question is what to do?!? And we do: study, learn foreign languages, find a prestige work, make a progress in the job, be creative, have fresh ideas, have the power to build an excellent reputation … and what we pass while working more than 10 hours a day?
We pass the simple things in life, the small happiness, meetings with friends, laughing about nothing, making sex, short walks, enjoying the sun and the warm wind … we pass our youth!
I want a family and children!
Well it’s time. The clock of our life shows 30 years old and tick-tacks faster and faster… Many ladies wake up in the morning and scream “I don’t want to be single anymore … Today I will meet my prince”. All these ladies want reliable relationship with a perfect partner. They want a perspective for marriage and children.
So I’m sure the perfect guy won’t skip me! Meanwhile I’m taking the most from life. I’m active, I entertain myself every day, I search for new challenges and collect fresh emotions!
I personally want more time! How to gain it?
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