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My love life is a big mess!
An ex-boyfriend called me yesterday again. We were 2 years ago for a couple of months together, we actually never break up. I just stopped meeting him - there were no specific reasons; I just lost sexual attraction toward him. He is a good boy – patient, well-balanced, he’s got big biceps ;) I have no explanation why I don’t want him back in my life!?!
Few weeks ago I visited a concert of Madonna in the city where I live. There I met a guy who was holding binoculars. Haha :-) Somehow I had a very free behaviour with him and often looked the scene through the binoculars. At the end of the concert we exchanged our phone numbers. I was so excited about the show that I couldn’t remember his name… He called me on the next day to arrange a meeting. Since I was packing my cloths for my summer vacation in Turkey I had no time to meet him. I promised to call him in one week, but actually I called him 10 days later.
I hardly tried to remember his name but unfortunatelly I couldn’t. So that’s why I entered his name in my phone as “Madonna” hahhaha :LOL So yesterday I called “Madonna” and we spoke. Then he called me back and we arrange our first date!
I’m very confused with all my experience, all the things I know, felt, suffered, and desired. Last year I arrived at the conclusion I can not toy well with men /maybe I’m wrong/. I fell into deep thoughts about what I’m doing wrong, how I’m attracting men, what kind of men I’m attracting and other things like that. I meet new guys, have fun to speak with them but I really can not find a man to give him all my love. WHY?
I accidentally found the book “Catch Him and Keep Him” by Christian Carter. I’m still reading it… This morning I read the following paragraph (page 112 from the book)
“...You don’t need to express all your thoughts, feelings and ideas about a topic on the spot, especially if you’re feeling really emotional about the topic. Wait and be patient, and do it when the time is right. Don’t be in a hurry when you’re in tough situations with a man—patience is wisdom and it will help you get what you want...”
How to know when the time is right? How to identify players and guys they are ready to settle down? “To be patient” means for me “a need of time”… Why do men need time? What are they considering? How to know when and how to push the fire-button on a man? Do all the men have the same buttons?
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1. You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved.
2. Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged.
3. There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities.
4. Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.
5. Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life.
6. Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way. 
7. Laugh at your mistakes and praise yourself for learning from them.
8. Say hello to strangers and enjoy the people you know.
9. Don't be afraid to show your emotions laughing and crying make you feel better.
10. Feel the calmness on a quiet sunny day.
11. Find a rainbow and live your world of dreams always remember life is better than it seems
12. Remember, the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends.
13. Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure.
14. Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you.
15. What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies. – Aristotle
16. The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend.-- Abraham Lincoln
17. Hold a true friend with both your hands. -- Nigerian Proverb
18. Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.
19. The best mirror is an old friend. --George Herbert
20. A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.-- Walter Winchell
21. Friends are needed both for joy and for sorrow. -- Samuel Paterson
22. Count your age with friends but not with years – Anonymous
23. Friendship is essentially a partnership. -- Aristotle (4th century B.C.)
24. My friend is he who will tell me my faults in private. -- Solomon Ibn Gabirol
25. There can be no Friendship where there is no Freedom. -- William Penn
26. A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else." -- Len Wein
27. Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty. -- Sicilian Proverb
28. The language of friendship is not words but meanings. -- Henry David Thoreau
29. Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
30. Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
31. You can only go as far as you push. 
32. Actions speak louder than words.
33. Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff.
34. When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there.
35. Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
36. What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
37. NOBODY IS PERFECT UNTIL YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM.
38. Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
39. The early bird still has to eat worms.
40. Don't argue with an idiot; people watching may not be able to tell the difference.
41. Brain cells come and brain cells go, but fat cells live forever. 
42. Maybe we have to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
43. When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
44. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
45. Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person too.
46. Love is an unusual game. There are either two winners or none.
47. The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
48. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
49. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
50. Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside. - Margaret Walker
51. Friends come in all sizes.
52. Friends come in all ages.
53. When a friend goes away the friendship doesn’t.
54. Friends don’t excuse what you do wrong, but they do forgive you.
55. You don't find happiness, you make happiness. You choose happiness.
56. You will never be happier than you expect. To change your happiness, change your expectation.
57. A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.
58. Money can't buy you happiness, but it does bring you a more pleasant form of misery.
59. Happiness ain't a thing in itself--it's only a contrast with something that ain't pleasant.
60. There is no cosmetic for beauty like happiness.
61. Happiness is nothing more than good health and a bad memory.
62. Our sickness is between our ears.
63. When you are in Love you can't fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams.
64. If you love me, let me know. If not, please gently let me go.
65. Some of the greater things in life are unseen thats why you close your eyes when you kiss, cry, or dream...
66. We were given: Two hands to hold. To legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find.
67. Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime. – Bette Davis
68. If you judge people, you have no time to love them. – Mother Teresa
69. A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesnt believe, and leaves before she is left. --Marilyn Monroe
70. True love never dies, even if you have found a new love, the sweet memory of the past will continue to hunt you for the rest of your life.
71. The ones that you love the most are usually the ones that hurt you the most.
72. Never drive faster than your gaurdian angel can fly. 
73. Girls we love for what they are; men for what they promise to be. -- Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
74. When I was a young man I vowed never to marry until I found the ideal woman. Well, I found her but, alas, she was waiting for the ideal man.
75. A man's brain has a more difficult time shifting from thinking to feeling than a women's brain does.
76. Because I am a woman, I must make unusual efforts to succeed. If I fail, no one will say, She doesn't have what it takes. They will say, Women don't have what it takes.
77. Youth is a wonderful thing. What a crime to waste it on children.
78. You're not 40, you're eighteen with 22 years experience.
79. Birthdays are good for you. Statistics show that the people who have the most live the longest.
80. Inside every older person is a younger person wondering what happened. ~Jennifer Yane
81. Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional. ~Chili Davis
82. The years teach much which the days never knew. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
83. How old would you be if you didn't know how old you were? ~Satchel Paige
84. Teenagers complain there's nothing to do, then stay out all night doing it. ~Bob Phillips
85. You don't choose your family. They are God's gift to you, as you are to them. ~Desmond Tutu 
86. In time of test, family is best. ~Burmese Proverb
87. When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.
88. A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous. ~Ingrid Bergman
89. A kiss can be a comma, a question mark or an exclamation point. That's basic spelling that every woman ought to know. ~Mistinguett
90. I kissed my first girl and smoked my first cigarette on the same day. I haven't had time for tobacco since. ~Arturo Toscanini
91. Happiness is like a kiss - it feels best when you give it to someone else.
92. Kisses are like tears, the only real ones are the ones you can't hold back.
93. Friends are kisses blown to us by angels.
94. A man's kiss is his signature. ~Mae West
95. When I kiss you, I can taste your soul. 
96. Woman submits to her fate; man makes his.
97. Kissing is like drinking salted water. You drink, and your thirst increases. ~Chinese Proverb
98. A kiss without a hug is like a flower without the fragrance. ~Proverb
99. Men never remember, but women never forget.
And my favorite one:
100. It is the woman who chooses the man who will choose her.
sources:
http://www.indianchild.com/index.htm
http://www.shabbir.com/romance/thoughts.html
http://www.gagirl.com/heart/heart.html
http://honeymoons.about.com/cs/wordsofwisdom/a/whatislovequote.htm
http://www.thehappyguy.com/definition-of-happiness.html
http://www.great-quotes.com/
http://www.quotegarden.com/
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What do young ladies want from life?
On the edge of 30 I ask myself what I want from life. 10 years ago I had daring dreams and wanted to be happy, to have enough money, to have many friends, to travel abroad, visit different places and meet various cultures.
Now I realize that dreams come true if you work hard every day and value in every day-life people’s attitude. Happiness is not a condition, it’s an aspiration. Money is never enough and there is no amount that can makes you happy because you want more and more… The question is: to have many friends or to have valuable contacts? A friendship is measured by its depth and exhaustion, not by its frequency. To travel a person needs time and money.
If we set aside the philosophy of our desires, let’s list the simple things we ladies want from life:
I want a staggering look!
So the question is what to do?!? And we do: diets, we use cosmetics, lipsticks, eye shadows, anti cellulite body gel with caffeine and extracts from cola, ivy and wild chestnut?!?!?! Smear our skin with body lotion to get more moisturizer tan … we support and develop an industry which offers us false and photo-shopped faces and bodies from all the magazines. Is this the real life?
I want a successful career!
So the question is what to do?!? And we do: study, learn foreign languages, find a prestige work, make a progress in the job, be creative, have fresh ideas, have the power to build an excellent reputation … and what we pass while working more than 10 hours a day?
We pass the simple things in life, the small happiness, meetings with friends, laughing about nothing, making sex, short walks, enjoying the sun and the warm wind … we pass our youth!
I want a family and children!
Well it’s time. The clock of our life shows 30 years old and tick-tacks faster and faster… Many ladies wake up in the morning and scream “I don’t want to be single anymore … Today I will meet my prince”. All these ladies want reliable relationship with a perfect partner. They want a perspective for marriage and children.
So I’m sure the perfect guy won’t skip me! Meanwhile I’m taking the most from life. I’m active, I entertain myself every day, I search for new challenges and collect fresh emotions!
I personally want more time! How to gain it?
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